<?xml version='1.0' encoding='UTF-8'?><?xml-stylesheet href="http://www.blogger.com/styles/atom.css" type="text/css"?><feed xmlns='http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom' xmlns:openSearch='http://a9.com/-/spec/opensearchrss/1.0/'><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6504259906351329000.post2269277534250295729..comments</id><updated>2011-12-31T20:03:08.628-08:00</updated><category term='Commentary'/><category term='Photo California'/><category term='Film Reviews'/><category term='Photo Los Angeles'/><category term='Grief'/><category term='Stories'/><category term='Travel'/><category term='Family'/><category term='Kid Three'/><category term='DIY'/><category term='Urban Living'/><category term='Letters to Margot'/><category term='Road Tripping'/><category term='Stella Rose'/><category term='Nonrequired Reading'/><category term='Fatherhood'/><category term='Gardening'/><category term='Margot June'/><category term='Stella Videos'/><category term='Letters to Stella'/><category term='Stella Photos'/><category term='Glow In the Woods'/><title type='text'>Comments on JACK at RANDOM: One In the Other</title><link rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#feed' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.jackatrandom.com/feeds/2269277534250295729/comments/default'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6504259906351329000/2269277534250295729/comments/default'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.jackatrandom.com/2011/12/sometimes.html'/><author><name>Josh Jackson</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/07558455153152363458</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='24' height='32' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-UDXri9OAp7M/TjHKS45-ZBI/AAAAAAAACwE/eAl-rbMslK8/s220/IMG_1004.JPG'/></author><generator version='7.00' uri='http://www.blogger.com'>Blogger</generator><openSearch:totalResults>6</openSearch:totalResults><openSearch:startIndex>1</openSearch:startIndex><openSearch:itemsPerPage>25</openSearch:itemsPerPage><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6504259906351329000.post-8538564546505892044</id><published>2011-12-31T20:03:08.628-08:00</published><updated>2011-12-31T20:03:08.628-08:00</updated><title type='text'>What a cutie. It&amp;#39;s sad but yet comforting that...</title><content type='html'>What a cutie. It&amp;#39;s sad but yet comforting that you have Stella as a measuring stick for what Margot might look like &amp;amp; be doing at the same age.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6504259906351329000/2269277534250295729/comments/default/8538564546505892044'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6504259906351329000/2269277534250295729/comments/default/8538564546505892044'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.jackatrandom.com/2011/12/sometimes.html?showComment=1325390588628#c8538564546505892044' title=''/><author><name>loribeth</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/09272814565916935113</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.jackatrandom.com/2011/12/sometimes.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6504259906351329000.post-2269277534250295729' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6504259906351329000/posts/default/2269277534250295729' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-860176679'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6504259906351329000.post-8512347641423100159</id><published>2011-12-30T19:18:28.684-08:00</published><updated>2011-12-30T19:18:28.684-08:00</updated><title type='text'>I am so sorry to read of your loss. I sure what yo...</title><content type='html'>I am so sorry to read of your loss. I sure what you do may be a normal occurance for any parent in your position. When you loose a child your mind will always wonder what they would look like, what they&amp;#39;d be doing and who they would grow into. I loss my little girl in July after going into labor pre-term at just before 24 weeks. She put up a fight but died a few hours later. I pray that our family both find peace in our tragedies as time goes on.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I&amp;#39;m sending lots of positivity your way.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;May 2012 be good to you and your family.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6504259906351329000/2269277534250295729/comments/default/8512347641423100159'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6504259906351329000/2269277534250295729/comments/default/8512347641423100159'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.jackatrandom.com/2011/12/sometimes.html?showComment=1325301508684#c8512347641423100159' title=''/><author><name>JIN @ I'LL TAKE CARE OF YOU</name><uri>http://illtakecareofyou.wordpress.com/</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img1.blogblog.com/img/blank.gif'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.jackatrandom.com/2011/12/sometimes.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6504259906351329000.post-2269277534250295729' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6504259906351329000/posts/default/2269277534250295729' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-1024750787'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6504259906351329000.post-6603911583946089286</id><published>2011-12-29T18:16:04.123-08:00</published><updated>2011-12-29T18:16:04.123-08:00</updated><title type='text'>God, Josh, I wonder this all the time. Where is sh...</title><content type='html'>God, Josh, I wonder this all the time. Where is she? I look for her in my boys and I just can&amp;#39;t find her. Fuck. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Sending you guys lots of love and hugs for 2012 and beyond.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;xo</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6504259906351329000/2269277534250295729/comments/default/6603911583946089286'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6504259906351329000/2269277534250295729/comments/default/6603911583946089286'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.jackatrandom.com/2011/12/sometimes.html?showComment=1325211364123#c6603911583946089286' title=''/><author><name>Mary Beth</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/12212750107782259674</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_fRGV5jHkops/S8USlt2qqOI/AAAAAAAAF5I/CS2NSZBTWkw/S220/P7030199.JPG'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.jackatrandom.com/2011/12/sometimes.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6504259906351329000.post-2269277534250295729' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6504259906351329000/posts/default/2269277534250295729' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-468202361'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6504259906351329000.post-3585484377459872473</id><published>2011-12-29T14:05:39.524-08:00</published><updated>2011-12-29T14:05:39.524-08:00</updated><title type='text'>Am praying for you!

And I know this is nothing co...</title><content type='html'>Am praying for you!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;And I know this is nothing compared to your pain, but I lost my first pregnancy late summer, and it is hard to see pregnant people in the same stage I would be right now.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;So I can only imagine how much more your grief is.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6504259906351329000/2269277534250295729/comments/default/3585484377459872473'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6504259906351329000/2269277534250295729/comments/default/3585484377459872473'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.jackatrandom.com/2011/12/sometimes.html?showComment=1325196339524#c3585484377459872473' title=''/><author><name>Anonymous</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img1.blogblog.com/img/blank.gif'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.jackatrandom.com/2011/12/sometimes.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6504259906351329000.post-2269277534250295729' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6504259906351329000/posts/default/2269277534250295729' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-1650288329'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6504259906351329000.post-7627742469944561226</id><published>2011-12-28T14:29:52.540-08:00</published><updated>2011-12-28T14:29:52.540-08:00</updated><title type='text'>All of my children have been peas in a pod at birt...</title><content type='html'>All of my children have been peas in a pod at birth so I feel as though I can trace her features through toddlerdom and childhood to the cusp of grown up. It&amp;#39;s comforting and saddening at the same time.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6504259906351329000/2269277534250295729/comments/default/7627742469944561226'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6504259906351329000/2269277534250295729/comments/default/7627742469944561226'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.jackatrandom.com/2011/12/sometimes.html?showComment=1325111392540#c7627742469944561226' title=''/><author><name>Fireflyforever</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/15290560217994184778</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_qlkrLjidFNw/Sb5LT563-wI/AAAAAAAAABQ/EzwT8srEV60/S220/Oct+-+Nov+05+023.jpg'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.jackatrandom.com/2011/12/sometimes.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6504259906351329000.post-2269277534250295729' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6504259906351329000/posts/default/2269277534250295729' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-1493018383'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6504259906351329000.post-6968998883289949217</id><published>2011-12-27T02:43:34.734-08:00</published><updated>2011-12-27T02:43:34.734-08:00</updated><title type='text'>Yep, I do that too. My Florence looked most like h...</title><content type='html'>Yep, I do that too. My Florence looked most like her big sister Eden, so I trawl photos of her at that age, and other times they take me unawares, like yesterday at Grandmas, a photo of Eden in a frame, about 2 and 1/2 years old, just the age Florence would be now.&lt;br /&gt;Then there are the desperate times when I look for photos of her shadow babies, that just bloody kills me, unyet I still do it.&lt;br /&gt;Sending love to you and yours. x</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6504259906351329000/2269277534250295729/comments/default/6968998883289949217'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6504259906351329000/2269277534250295729/comments/default/6968998883289949217'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.jackatrandom.com/2011/12/sometimes.html?showComment=1324982614734#c6968998883289949217' title=''/><author><name>Jeanette</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/11423818333034603238</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='21' height='32' src='http://bp2.blogger.com/_zfdub9OERys/R59EWpdfaOI/AAAAAAAAAAM/phvmoL31ZS0/S220/avi.jpg'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.jackatrandom.com/2011/12/sometimes.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6504259906351329000.post-2269277534250295729' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6504259906351329000/posts/default/2269277534250295729' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-851749606'/></entry></feed>
